Losing your marriage and feeling like there’s nothing that you can do to save it has got to be one of the worst feelings on earth. I know, because I’ve been through it twice. And while this isn’t the sort of topic I usually like to discuss on here, there is a new program called “Mend The Marriage” by a guy named Brad Browning, that I wanted to talk about today…
Note: This is a review, Click Here for the Official Mend The Marriage website…
In an attempt to save my two marriages I have read a lot on the subject. I’ve bought a lot of online “relationship rescue” courses and I’ve gone to over $30K worth of marriage counseling sessions over the years. And one thing I’ve learned from all this is that there is a lot of truly worthless advice out there. There are also some really dumb people working as “marriage counselors” who charge hundreds per hour, giving advice that is often extremely detrimental to relationships.
That being said, there is also some really good advice out there, that can make a real difference, and that’s why I’m talking about Brad’s program today. In this review I’ll briefly go over the main idea behind the program, discuss my favorite parts and the big takeaways, and then give my educated opinion of the course’s validity…
The Big Idea Behind Brad Browning’s Marriage Saving Program…
Unlike many other books and courses on marriage, Brad’s program is made up almost entirely of proven psychological techniques that are based on real scientific research. You may assume, like I used to, that all of the other programs and books on saving your marriage would also be based on psychological studies, University research and that sort of thing, but shockingly (to me anyway) this is actually not the case at all! So this program gets points for that right off the bat. In fact, the main reason I was interested in checking out this program is because I had heard of Brad and his reputation as a “divorce/relationship geek” after I discovered his well known Ex Factor program (for getting your ex back, a review of that one will be posted in the near future.)
Anyhow, based on this research Brad has come to the conclusion that the vast majority of marriages CAN be saved, even in cases where the odds appear to be stacked against you, and even when your spouse has emotionally “checked out” and does not appear to be interested in saving the relationship. The trick is to stop relying on the destructive “myths” that are so widely promoted by so-called marriage experts and counselors. Instead, in this program you’ll be using proven psychological techniques to remold your partner’s mental and emotional image of you, and build powerful emotional bonds with them.
In the program Brad identifies the “marriage murdering mistakes” that so many of us inadvertently make, and shows you how to stop committing these crimes against your marriage so that you can stop your marriage from getting damaged any further. Then, you get Brad 3 step system for fixing things back up and getting your spouse to feel the kind of love, passion, and warm intimate emotions that they felt for you when you first got together.
How Does It Work?
Obviously I can’t share everything, but the basic idea behind the 3 step process is to use what Brad calls “Immediate Impact Actions” or IIAs to get rid of the negativity, stress and anger in your relationship and get your spouse to start experiencing the loving feelings they had for you when you started out. rather than trying to use logic and reasoning (we all know how well those work, lol) you appeal to their emotions and use Brad’s “Big 6 Bond Builders” to build an emotional connection that can effectively “divorce-proof” your marriage.
What Comes With This System?
The program is all digital so you get access to everything right away, over the Internet. This is especially important with this kind of a program because when your marriage is in trouble time is of the essence. In addition to the 270-page Interactive eBook that includes an overview of the entire system and all the detailed techniques and tactics you also get a 4-Hour audio version of the course, a 7-Part video training series, Team Building Worksheets and 3 additional Bonus eBooks: “Infidelity Survival Guide”, “Children & Divorce”, and “Marriage Money Matters”.
Pros & Cons – The Best And Worst Things About Mend The Marriage:
Pro 1) Based On Proven Psychology… As I mentioned, this course is based on the way humans work psychologically, and emotionally. And as you go through the material I think that you will start to see how and why all of these specific tactics work.
Pro 2) Covers Every Possible Situation… The course is comprehensive and goes over just about any specific circumstances that you may be facing in your marriage and then gives you a specific game plan and techniques for dealing with your unique situation.
Pro 3) Material On Protecting Your Kids From The Trauma Of Divorce/Your Relationship Drama… This is a big one for me. When you have kids, protecting them becomes your top priority, so it is great that Brad has included such in depth, thoughtful material on this.
Pro 4) Apparently It Works Very Well… Although I’m not in a position to test this material out personally at the moment, there are a lot of people, both men and women, who have had great success. In many cases they have even provided their personal email addresses where you can verify that they used the program successfully. (You can read some of these success stories here.)
Con 1) Not A Cure All… In the video on Brad’s website he comes out and says it “this is NOT guaranteed to solve all your problems” and that is obviously true. There are some situations that are just beyond hope, and there are some marriages that definitely shouldn’t be saved.
I find Brad’s honesty refreshing. He’s up front about the fact that using his methods do require some effort, and that this system is probably not going to be able to solve every last one of your relationship issues. He then goes on to say that the course will (if you implement what he teaches) dramatically improve your chances of saving, and strengthening your marriage, and I believe that this is true as well.
My personal belief is that, in the end, there’s nothing in even nearly as important as your personal relationships, your marriage and your family.
That’s why I’ve always fought to save my relationship that I felt were worth saving. So that, win or lose, I can look back and say that “I did everything that I could to make it work”.
That said, if you’re at a point where your marriage is in real trouble then I’d definitely recommend using Brad’s system while you still have the chance. Click Here to get Instant Access To The Complete Mend The Marriage System Now!